A few days ago Shakira talked about her second pregnancy and explained that there are times when she feels she is pregnant with twins. We do not know if he says it because of the size of his belly or because of how moved the baby is on the way, but when I read it, I thought: "Thankfully, she has said it herself."
And it is that when one is pregnant to others they are given to be funny or tell the truths, well, without filter, in what I think is a kind of virus or evil that those in the environment suffer and that does not go away until years after the boy or girl is born, because equally, when you are already a mother, they talk about you, your body, your son and how you do it and they stay so wide.
To what I was going, that after reading Shakira's words I thought that this was one of those phrases that you should not say to a pregnant woman: "It seems that you are twins".
And now you will be thinking that "I have said it sometime"
Surely now you are trying to remember to try to remember if you have ever told a pregnant woman. And surely you tell yourself that it is possible, but that you had no bad intention. Yes, of course, if you say to a woman on top that it seems that instead of one it takes two and you say it to annoy it is already to kill you, but sometimes we say it without thinking and I don't think there are many pregnant women who like to hear that their belly is huge.
No, because the body changes, the uterus grows, the belly also and although all these changes are assumed (normally) well, the one that compares you with others and makes you feel outside the normal pattern, even in this pregnancy, do not feel well.
So if you've ever said it, well, nothing is said, there is no way to solve it. But if it happens to you in the future that you meet a pregnant woman and you see that her belly is very big, think twice before thinking about twins. Shut up, don't say it. And if you can't, if the words get away, if you can't stand not saying something, redirect the situation and ask "when will it be born?" and you can always add the "do you already have a name?" Whatever the answer will also be for the question you have avoided, right?
