This is a very sensitive issue that affects many couples and that somehow, it is the smallest who always pay the consequences. Divorced women (especially those who have decided to separate), sometimes must endure what we might call the divorced revenge, whether large or small facts.
In this post we will talk about the problem in women, although soon we will also discuss the opposite case. The truth is that in many occasions it is not so easy for a woman to make this decision, there are several burdens that hold her back considerably, be it the children, the economic issue or the legal aspects. But when a woman who has children has managed to get rid of a bad husband (that there are), there are numerous problems that she has to go through and that affect both the mother and the children.
To give some examples, there are husbands who do not pass the pension for child support, a fact that has a considerable impact on them, depending on the case, a mother may not have the right economic conditions because she is not in the working world and have worked exclusively of the husband and his children. It is law that the ex-husband assumes his responsibility as a father and passes the necessary pension to be able to feed the children. We can also add that it is not only about food, clothing, doctors or schools, among other aspects, also enter the lot. Parents should be aware of their responsibility, the fact that they do not agree with their former partner does not imply that they stop attending to the needs of their children. This form of revenge is due to the fact that they do not accept the fact of not being indispensable for women and unconsciously seek ways to demonstrate this fact.
The children are always in the middle, the boycott carried out by the father accuses him directly about them, in addition a fact that contrasts is that, they do not spend the pension for the maintenance of the children, but they do not mind filling these gifts with the vile purpose of making these children love him more than his mother who is going through needs and cannot offer the children what he is buying.
We could talk about an innumerable list of reprisals that ex-husbands take and that directly affect their children. First of all a man must be a father and then a person, recognize the unfeasibility of union with the couple and assume, despite the facts, the importance of properly educating the children and providing them with what is necessary for their development.
As we said at the beginning it is a very delicate issue, since there are all kinds of situations and ways of proceeding, both of the mother and the father. The most important of all is to try to cope with the situation and prevent it from affecting the children, so that their life is a joy and not an ordeal.
We have a friend who has spent a hell with this issue, she is divorced and since then she does not stop suffering in her flesh the psychological abuse by the ex-husband, the worst of which are her children. We dedicate this entry to Carmen, we hope your problem can be solved.
