I recently commented on an interview with psychologist Javier Urra, in which he made some statements about the "quality time" with which I was not satisfied. I have found, on the contrary, a beautiful article that explains the experience of sharing time with children from a perspective that I loved.
The author, the psychologist Violet Alcocer, which I talked about in the past, conveys some ideas on how to make time with children truly enriching for the relationship, emphasizing that "For children, “active” parental care is essential"To fully understand the child, he explains that it is essential to bedeeply concentrated"in him. Observing, sharing and delighting in each of his reactions and spending as much time as possible.
Lack of time causes adults themselves to rarely focus on one thing, talking, watching TV, shopping or talking with a friend while children play. We are, but at the same time many times we are not "present". The psychologist explains that in addition to being important the amount of time, the quality is, proposing that we be with the children, playing and sharing activities, with "our whole being".
