All couples who practice school, that is to say they sleep with their children, do so because they feel like it and because of the emotional benefit it entails for all family members.
It is understood that both parents agree that the child (or children) share the bed with them. Most often the promoters of the colecho are usually mothers because, among other things, sleeping with the newborn facilitates breastfeeding.
There are many men who accept their partner's decision that the baby sleep with them, but sometimes the father may not agree. What happens when the mother wants and the father does not want to practice colecho? What do you think, is it selfish or is it a respectable choice?
The decision to practice the colecho or not should be spoken and agreed between both, in addition to being a responsible decision from the point of view of security. When sleeping with the baby, the intention of both the mother and father should be to provide comfort, confidence and affection. It is important that the two get involved and that the whole family enjoys sleeping together.
For some men it is interference for their relationships. One of the great ghosts is that it will decrease the frequency in sexual relations with his wife.
It is important that men are prepared so that their life changes completely with the arrival of a child, even in their sexual facet. Probably for a while the frequency of sexual intercourse is lower, whether the baby sleeps in the same bed as he does not.
Some may think that their rest is affected by the presence of the baby or that they feel displaced from a place as intimate for a couple as is the double bed.
Of course, the opinion of the father is as respectable as that of the mother. The fundamental thing is that they find a meeting point that benefits everyone.
A good solution, both to solve the problem of bed space (which is another inconvenience of the bed), and when the father does not agree that the baby sleeps in the same bed, are the cribs.
They are cribs in which one of the sides is removed and can be attached to the parents' bed by adding extra space to the bed. The baby has its own space there while being close to the parents. It is very practical for the mother who gives the tit and avoids having to get up to care for the baby at night.
